Men are always so quick to say what they want or do not want in a woman, but what makes "a man" the know it all when it comes to finding a perfect mate? I mean men can be pricks and some very single because they do not have the capacity to grasp the basics. Yes women are naturally nurturing and emotional beings, but if it was not for our compassion and strength, a man, would not grace this earth. We, women, are here to be fruitful and multiply. We embrace woman hood and the capacity to give birth. Ideally every woman would be able to understand that this is a true blessing, but everyone on this earth is not designed the same. Some can withstand more than others because of mindset and its okay because the variance in individual personalities and capabilities make up diversity and no one really wants to be consumed in redundancy. I mean what would the world be like if you could premeditate everything? No spontaneity? No surprise?
At any rate, women love men, period, naturally we are designed that way. And just so I am clear, I am liberal, I take no offense to same sex marriages or partnerships, it is not my place to judge, but for the purposes of this article/post this is nearly my viewpoint and my relational interest as a heterosexual. No disrespect intended.
So as a woman I want a man not afraid to show concern, when needed. A man strong enough to admit his faults and confess his love and be better for the woman in his life. A man that understands the heart of a woman is not a toy. A man who takes ownership and handles his business. We want the man not ashamed to love even when we have gained a few pounds.
I think is funny that men will go into detail about the woman he wants, what she should and shouldn't do, have or what she should and should not act like, but for a woman we are simple. We love a man for that fact that we know his eye may wonder, or that his pride may interfere with what he is know he should or shouldn't do. We accept that about you. We will do our best to love and trust you but when you act out you leave us no choice but to do the same.
I just want men to understand that loving a woman is just as hard as loving a man and when you are overly demanding, insecure, jealous and prideful it hinders the love capability. We just want to love you for who you are. I just wish that instead of trying to define the "perfect mate" that we as men and women learn to love all of the things that make us fall in love. Whether it is what would or wouldn't identify as the perfect mate. We can love perfectly all of those things that surprises us. That is what "falling in love" feels like.
At any rate, women love men, period, naturally we are designed that way. And just so I am clear, I am liberal, I take no offense to same sex marriages or partnerships, it is not my place to judge, but for the purposes of this article/post this is nearly my viewpoint and my relational interest as a heterosexual. No disrespect intended.
So as a woman I want a man not afraid to show concern, when needed. A man strong enough to admit his faults and confess his love and be better for the woman in his life. A man that understands the heart of a woman is not a toy. A man who takes ownership and handles his business. We want the man not ashamed to love even when we have gained a few pounds.
I think is funny that men will go into detail about the woman he wants, what she should and shouldn't do, have or what she should and should not act like, but for a woman we are simple. We love a man for that fact that we know his eye may wonder, or that his pride may interfere with what he is know he should or shouldn't do. We accept that about you. We will do our best to love and trust you but when you act out you leave us no choice but to do the same.
I just want men to understand that loving a woman is just as hard as loving a man and when you are overly demanding, insecure, jealous and prideful it hinders the love capability. We just want to love you for who you are. I just wish that instead of trying to define the "perfect mate" that we as men and women learn to love all of the things that make us fall in love. Whether it is what would or wouldn't identify as the perfect mate. We can love perfectly all of those things that surprises us. That is what "falling in love" feels like.
